Victory is never achieved by constant pushing into a thing that never interests you. It is achievable once you have a certain interest in a kind of thing that surrounds the victory. May be it is finding the right choice of one’s job profile or finding the right candidate for being one’s lifeline. Within these uncertainties lies certain interests that makes one taste the victory desired for.
Taking a shot at finding a life-partner, it is never easy for the one who is bullied mostly in his certain period of life for appearing like a geek with no interest in the exterior happenings. No one took a pain to understand his point of ignorance or his fear of not making people stop bullying his appearance or mannerism. He may not portray the same outlook at present but the society would have already judged him from the past. Sometimes people take his silence as a preconceived answer but he was never asked for justification of his sealed lips.
Certain things as per such kind of guys is a waste of time to create noise for and ignorance is better to avoid any wastage of energy. But, no one knows that, this guy is a different person all-together when it matters to ones he cares for. Such people can go to extremes but in an organized way to fight the odds. Hence, it becomes tough for the other person to judge this kind of guy as a life-partner. Therefore, mostly the search continues for long until that guy finds a perfect partner for his future.
Then, comes one day that it is not just a meet over some water body that takes so many turns in life but probably it is the signal of the turning wind to set it up for a lifetime. One gets optimistic for the time to tell its tale, dreams high and sets the nervousness aside, cares more, speaks the heart out, acts stupid to bring a smile around. It is only that smile which counts for happiness. May be with a hope that the perfect search is over now and someone will be there for him to voice against all the fears of his life and make him feel important, this guy can now face anything that comes to him with a trust and confident of having someone to walk side-by-side.
Only that person will get to know the other valuable side of him that is important for a happy relationship. And there comes the first positive step towards an achievable victory by an interest of understanding one another for leading a better life.
“Certain victories are unique and some are sweetly engraved by some inspiring relationships. An inspiring relationship itself has a long story to tell the generations ahead.”
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